In an era of fleeting relationships, Courtney B. Vance and Angela Bassett have quietly built one of Hollywood’s most enduring love stories. With nearly 30 years of marriage under their belt, Vance says the secret comes down to two essentials: mutual respect and putting your partner first.
Speaking at the world premiere of Disney’s live-action Lilo & Stitch at the El Capitan Theatre in Los Angeles on Saturday (May 17), Vance opened up about the foundation of their lasting bond.
“It’s really about when my wife is happy, the land is happy,” the 65-year-old actor told PEOPLE.
“So I just try to [go], ‘Does this work for you, baby?’ If it doesn’t work … we’re not doing that.”
He emphasized the importance of honest, respectful communication—especially when it comes to major life decisions.
“I think it’s the mutual respect. You gotta talk about [it] and figure out which way … [you] want to go.”
A Love Story Years in the Making
Vance and Bassett’s paths first crossed in the early 1980s as drama students at the prestigious Yale School of Drama. While their connection was initially platonic, fate brought them together again in 1994 in New York—and this time, the spark was undeniable.
They married in 1997 and have been inseparable ever since. In 2006, they welcomed twins Bronwyn Golden and Slater Josiah, who recently completed their freshman year of college.
Vance beamed with pride as he shared that both 19-year-olds are already exploring creative ventures—perhaps following in the footsteps of their iconic parents.
Still Going Strong in Hollywood
While many celebrity marriages face unique pressures, Vance and Bassett have managed to keep their love grounded. Their approach? Shared values, continuous support, and always checking in with each other.
Now, as Vance gears up for the release of Lilo & Stitch—hitting theaters May 23—he continues to showcase the same commitment in both his professional and personal life.
Angela Bassett, who has earned widespread acclaim for her powerhouse performances in films like What’s Love Got to Do With It, Black Panther, and Malcolm X, was notably not at the Lilo & Stitch premiere, but remains a constant presence in her husband’s spotlight moments.
Final Takeaway
In a few heartfelt words, Courtney B. Vance offered a timeless relationship lesson:
“If it doesn’t work for my partner, it doesn’t work—period.”
That mindset, built on respect and intentional partnership, has kept one of Hollywood’s favorite couples thriving for decades.
